When to let go of toxic people you love

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It is a bitter truth of life but sometimes, we must let go of things and people we love, for our own good. The point is to know when. I am sharing this for I came across such a decisive situation very recently and also because I believe that this could benefit someone stuck in a similar situation.

It is a fact that letting go calls for immense courage and emotional stability on your part. You can still better let go of the beloved if you can understand why you must do that and convince yourself completely that this is only way out. So, when I confronted the situation I called a friend and told him that this certain person is bothering me so bad, I wish to cling in but it just always somehow bring ripples in my mental composure. The beautiful thing that my friend told that day was to sort things in life into two categories. One of those which makes you feel positive and the other of those which brings negativity. I quickly sorted out this very person as someone who knowingly unknowingly always demotivated me. My friend then told me to simply understand that I had to let go of all those things that hit me with negative vibes.

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Yes, it didn’t happen immediately but I could absorb this gradually and moved on. And trust me it has made me achieve more and be a better version of myself. I also allowed new people to enter my life and felt more confident about myself.

I hope this very simple but million dollar lesson from my life helps you in your life. So sort out today and be sorted. I will leave you with this very motivating quote that I had read in goodreads –

The lack of mindfulness often makes us carry the unnecessary possessions, stale ideologies and rotten relationships along, which unnecessarily clutter our lives and consciousness, and stagnate our growth.
― Banani Ray

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Namrata Kumari

Hello! My name is Namrata Kumari. I am a daily 10 to 8 office worker and lately, I realized that this is not what my life should be like. I cannot just commute to my work place, work there for ten hours, come back to my apartment and sleep to wake up to do the same old thing day after every day. I know there are people just like me who wish to break through this monotonous cycle and make their lives even more purposeful. I chose blogging as a way to bring the much needed change in my life and to reach out those who share the same feelings. If you have any valuable suggestions then please share it below in the comment box.

2 Comments

  1. Always would like to see you happy with sense if satisfaction in everything you do. May this year bring you much more success and joy.
    Much love ♥️ ☺️

  2. Always would like to see you happy with sense of satisfaction in everything you do. May this year bring you much more success and joy.
    Much love ♥️

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